Sperando di avere ben mirato il tuo cuore, con affetto (Hoping I have aimed well at your heart, with affection)
© all rights reserved | 2025 | Antonio La Grotta
photography | archival print/Hahnemuhle Paper | photographies variable size | vintage photography + documents + postcard 10x15cm | edition of 3 | 2024 - ongoing
Sperando di avere ben mirato il tuo cuore, con affetto (Hoping I have aimed well at your heart, with affection) originates from the discovery of two black-and-white photographs taken in different places and times, telling a unique story of love and death. The title is handwritten in pencil on the back of one of these two photos-a promise of love. Perhaps.
Femicide refers to the killing of a woman, and a common form of violence is domestic violence, often perpetrated by family members and partners. However, the term “femicide” does not encompass its meaning solely in the final act of killing a woman. Rather, it identifies a much broader phenomenon that
includes a multitude of behaviors such as mistreatment, physical, psychological, sexual, educational, or economic violence, primarily committed by men in work, family, or social contexts. Collectively, these behaviors undermine a woman’s freedom, dignity, and integrity, and can culminate in murder, attempted murder, or severe forms of suffering.
So, what can be done? From a social and political perspetive,
it is crucial to address femicide as an issue that cannot be ignored. The photographic project aims to provide a visual narrative on the ambiguity of the word love, which is often misused. This will be conveyed through my photographs and various materials from other archives, such as postcards, photographs, drawings, and more.
Postcards: Donatella & Angelo / Love story / Gela, Caltanissetta, Italy 1983
Front of the postcard:
"Donatella and I made love here too"
Back of the postcard:
To whore Donatella / whore, liar, mythomaniac, bastard,
you accused an innocent person
Front of the postcard:
"Here, we made love for the third time."
Back of the postcard:
To whore Donatella / you whore, you liar, you had an
innocent man convicted
Front of the postcard:
"Angelo convinced us to forgive you"
Back of the postcard:
to Donatella/
I hate you, you damn whore, you made my cousin die.
Because of you my twin Daniela was killed by order of A. in
France and because of you A.A.P. gave the order to M. s
people to kill him and then you and your lover will pay too